This insight arose during a couple's session, and it's a poignant and profound truth that can change everything. It really gets to the core of most relationship issues.
If you ever find yourself in the middle of an argument with your loved one, just remember;
"You're both just trying to get each other back, and neither of you meant to start it."
They love you. You love them. Challenge yourself. Catch yourself make the mistake of distrusting the person you love. Give them the benefit of the doubt. Forgive them instantly. Just start asking questions and figure out why things were said and done. It's so rarely the case that they wanted to hurt you. They deserve your trust "first".
What was a battle zone has now become a puzzle and no one is being blamed any longer. You're shadow just sighs as it gives you back the "conscious control" of your life.
Peace to you,
Bryan
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